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by shellgame11111 on July 11, 2008 at 21:42:27

I have been in many leagues and clubs and have seen drama everywhere. We are human and therefore imperfect beings. However, recently it seems there is some sort of strange notion of "inappropriate" behavior that has caused several members to be "boxed". I would personally like to see these "boxings" reduced to discussions, mutual agreement, and cooperation. Perhaps if the boxing "victim" is able to present their case in a compassionate environment then it will prevent many misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Please reconsider these rigid boxing rules....I for one am afraid to say much in the lobby these days.
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  by skinnyminni_me on July 12, 2008 at 05:31:17
  
  I agree with everything that is being said. It is hard just to talk in lobby now days due to the boxing. Everyone is different, and need to look at how someone else is taking the matter. It is a shame to be boxed when you are standing up for yourself or someone else. I would have left a long time ago but I do have friends in here that I really like. But really hurt my feeling when they boxed me, and judged me on something I didn't even know I did. They said I was very rude during a game and when I ask my p she had no idea about it. Then to top it off get and im form an admin. that didn't know me telling me how sorry of a person I am. I really think the boxing could be reduced. If admin would let the person explain themselfs before judging them.
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    by electraladyb on July 11, 2008 at 22:28:17
    
    I have been in this league for several years and have been treated fairly most of the time. There have been times when I have been deemed wrong for no reasons and it really hurt my feelings, sometimes so bad that I did not even want to stay and play anymore. I think sometimes the td's power trip just alittle bit too much, but you afraid to say anything in fear of being boxed. In my opinion, I just think some boxing's are unnecessary and can be worked out. I love this league and hope to stick around here for a long time. Peace and Love to all and why can't we all just get along.......................Brigitte
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      by electraladyb on July 11, 2008 at 22:20:33
      
      I have been in many leagues and clubs and have seen drama everywhere. We are human and therefore imperfect beings. However, recently it seems there is some sort of strange notion of "inappropriate" behavior that has caused several members to be "boxed". I would personally like to see these "boxings" reduced to discussions, mutual agreement, and cooperation. Perhaps if the boxing "victim" is able to present their case in a compassionate environment then it will prevent many misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Please reconsider these rigid boxing rules....I for one am afraid to say much in the lobby these days.
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        by prostock_55 on July 11, 2008 at 22:13:03
        
        I AM IN TOTAL AGREEMENT. I BELIEVE THE ONE BEING BOXED SHOULD HAVE A RIGHT TO DEFEND THEMSELVES AS LONG AS THEY ARE IN THE LEAGUE
        
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        by prostock_55 on July 11, 2008 at 22:10:03
        
        I have been in many leagues and clubs and have seen drama everywhere. We are human and therefore imperfect beings. However, recently it seems there is some sort of strange notion of "inappropriate" behavior that has caused several members to be "boxed". I would personally like to see these "boxings" reduced to discussions, mutual agreement, and cooperation. Perhaps if the boxing "victim" is able to present their case in a compassionate environment then it will prevent many misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Please reconsider these rigid boxing rules....I for one am afraid to say much in the lobby these days.

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