: I think many of you need to get a life. It's obvious many of you take this way more seriously than you should. Be that as it may, some of you dont realize there are people on here who are mean and vindictive. Sorry but it's true. Additionally there is at least one woman on here who desires all the attention of every man. and when she finds herself in competition for that attention with another woman, shes pure evil. We all know who she is. Now its no secret that most every woman on here desires me, both physicaly and emotionally. I mean who can blame them? I certainly dont. What i do suggest though, is if you just accept the fact that there are people who are extremely mean and vindictive towards other women but yet sweet and loving towards men, you can stop expecting otherwise and you wont get your feelings hurt so easily. And to any of you who I've upset or hurt over the past few months, I'm sorry. 99'm joking.

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    by gitty_up_h0e on November 12, 2009 at 15:17:32
  
  w0w Les u hit the nail on the head!.........i found out some things and all i will say is I was right!.........funny how that works out.....what i was told and who told me isnt important..........I'd like everyone in league to get along but we all know that wont happen.......Spade_friends has been around a long time and we have gr8 players and gr8 peeps.......so lets keep spading and hugzzzzzzz to all that want 1......w0w i can say that 2......amazing! hugzzzzzzzz ya'll
  
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      by davzlove on November 12, 2009 at 14:53:17
    
    Wow Holly! Your response speaks volumes! I see no names mentioned here so I can only ASSume that you must be feeling a little guilty about something. I offered a very sincere apology to you in hopes that the infection that leaks in to this league could be stopped before it started to pus over. I in no way want to have words with you but you are a very rude person. I have NEVER called u a C**T so please dont be accusing unless u have some type of proof as that is slander. I could care less if you opened your eyes tomorrow to be honest with you. I am here to play and help out Coleen with her league. I speak to you as a staff member and you cant even have the dignity to respond but thats ok....you are so right. You never have to speak to me but when you are TDing (which isnt often as of late for some reason....maybe pissed about something or someone else running tours) and I as a member ask you a ? then yes u need to respond. I dont care if you are having a bad day or whatever the reason is AS STAFF when you are running a tourney and are asked a question regarding it YOU NEED TO ANSWER! From this moment on tho rest assured there will be no further communication from me to you regarding anything not league related. You want to hold grudges and be an unhappy person....have at it! I for one intend to have fun with or without you speaking to me!
    
    
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        by davzlove on November 09, 2009 at 18:52:51
      
      U know I was saving the best for last! Love ya MAMA!!
      
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          by davzlove on November 09, 2009 at 17:10:28
        
        Di, you my friend are a very refreshing breeze here in SF! You always w/d to let someone else play, you always p whoever needs a p (EVEN me and that says ALOT!) I agree with everything you have written. I just wish for the sake of the league that people would realize we all are human, we all make mistakes and not everyone is going to have a good day every single day!
        I have found online while playing spades some very dear friends. Those who call just because, those who call because they are sad and those who ya meet and never wanna leave because they have touched your heart with the kindness they have extended.
        Thank you Diane for being real and being YOU!
        Love ya!!
        
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            by Blondie_4414 on November 09, 2009 at 07:36:14
          
          Well, I am writing this with a very heavy heart. I have been holding a few grudges and tonight it all came to a head. I love this league and want it to be somewhere that we can all come to have fun and play spades.To anyone whom I may have "wronged" this is my apology. Tomorrow is a new day and I dont intend to bring any of my negativism in to CC for anyone to have to deal with.I have been very fortunate to meet life long friends here and even those who know how to make me laugh when Ive cried all day.Lacey, you are my dearest friend and I am honored to be yours! Kaye, you are a very special person and you shine so bright! I wish you saw in yourself what others see! Cid, wow, words cant even describe to u what u mean to me.....all u tds rock! Sherry get well soon and come back to us as we miss ya! Holly, I am sorry for whatever I have done or u think I have done. Like I said it isnt about u nor me....it is about the league, so lets please call a truce. Much love to u all! Leslie

          Dear Les.

          We go back a ways in this league an others.
          I think your a lovely person. Your message makes me sad.
          I would like to respond.
          Yours was a heartfelt message and I agree with you.I had a simular problem with a person ( who shall remain nameless).
          My problem started with her 5 or 6yrs ago and any attempt to smooth things over was rejected by her from this day to that. She was totally unwilling to put her hatered of me aside and begun a 6year Gihad against me.
          I even kept a yahoo messenger Im from 5yrs go from that person where they say Never and refuse to be civil and make amends.
          We could go into why a person choses to get so hateful! Is it that they are so unhappy they bring it with them when they mingle with others.
          Are they Jealous and angry and if so I ask why?
          There is no reason we all have lives,good and bad, happy and sad, playing spades is a great passtime and I personally enjoy it and 99f the folks in the league are super and so much fun and I respect them and very happy to know them and spend time with them.
          I am a fun loving civil minded person with few complaints I happy life I am not looking for problems from anyone. I am a business owner who deals with people all the time, and when a problem comes up I bend over backwards to work it out.
          That person carries hatered in her soul, and I can only speak for myself I am not a masochist and no doormat for people who behave this way.
          My best advice if I may give it is avoid and use iggy its the best tool avail.
          From my experience you could move the Great Wall of China easier then to move her.
          Some people enjoy,need even love hating and drama I urge you to not be drawn into it and believe me its not easy. Sometimes its subtle sometimes and sometimes their actions are overt.
          In this league that means causing trouble to get you respond and get you boxed and they of course hope that it will get you banned or kicked.
          Again We who Luv and care about you will be here for you watch the drama potholes.
          One last comment Feel sorry for them and the old saying might be true You can lead a horse to water but you cannot make them drink!
          

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              by club4stars on November 08, 2009 at 17:29:13
            
            Enjoyed very much reading something nice, so Leslie keep up the good work, smile and never judge the other and you are a good girl.
            Ray will behave and no need spanking lol
            
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                by davzlove on November 07, 2009 at 23:19:37
              
              oh and linda............thank u so much for your help tonight in the rung! cant tell ya what that meant to me!
              RAY u still need a spanking!